female friends

[Randall]

I put it down to wit and charm

[The Thorn]

It's like me saying that if Thorn were a centimetre shorter I would refuse to feed him. What superficial muck.

I desire oat bars

I have some with choc chips and some without but you are not tall enough.

Time to dust off my platform heels.

[sennafan24]

I put it down to wit and charm

I put it down to the green velvet suit and red waistcoat.

[Cooking with Sandra]

Cartoon cloths!

[sennafan24]

Cartoon cloths!

Tunky!

[Highfield]

Time to move on

only woman i love. didnt get anywhere on dating apps. just me being honest

There are plenty of short fat ugly birds around mate

They wont date me either cause of my height. This is ow i went on on hinge dating

Are you looking for something serious or casual? - serious

Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? - Hinge +

How long have you been using this current version of your profile? - a month and 2 day

How long have you used Hinge overall? - 4 years

How often do you use Hinge per week? - everyday

How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? - 1 like from bot 2 matches from bot

How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments? - loads of both

What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? - outgoing ladies

got disaproved because i complained about how women dont like me coz of mty height

Hinge advice from someone who's used it for years and had two fairly brief relationships (3/4 months) but relationships nonetheless come from it:

- Don't pay for the subscription ffs. Any man paying for membership on any dating app, be it Hinge, Tinder or Bumble, is being scammed. I used to pay like £100 a year for Tinder Gold circa 2018 and it did absolutely nothing. Granted at the time I looked like an obese chewbacca, but the odds are stacked massively against men on apps. If you don't get likes, remind yourself that almost all men get barely any likes and even the most average woman gets hundreds, it's just the way it is.

- Don't max your likes out in one day. These apps have algorithms which punish people who use them too much or not enough. This happens to men and women. If you're desperate, the computer figures it out. Instead, memorize how many likes you're allocated get in a day and always leave one or two spare, the app will view you as "higher value" and push you further up the queue. Go on it for like 10 minutes and then leave and maybe come back later in the day for another 10 minutes, don't spam for hours unless you're talking to a match.

- Speaking of which, don't waste your time with liking women that don't look like genuine people, ie outrageously glamorous models that you may have nothing in common with based on their profile. Hit X on the profile that everyone else likes, you'll be "rewarded" by the algorithm and save yourself the stress of someone disingenuous. Instead prioritise interests, someone you think looks nice but has the same hobbies as you. If you want outgoing, comment on something they like/are doing in the photo, rather a compliment on how they look. You'll get a better gauge on their personality then.

- How tall are you if you don't mind me asking? Any woman who demands 6ft + as an outright deal-breaker is shallow, immature and not worth your time, it'll never work out. Unless of course they are on the taller side, that's perfectly understandable that they want a tall man. Don't complain to women about women, instead have the attitude that if they have an issue with you, then they weren't meant for you.

- Make your profile unique. Don't fucking mention eating roasts on a Sunday, loving dogs, controversially eating pineapple on pizza, travelling or anything like that, it's trite boring shite.

- If you do end up meeting someone, build a conversation and mutual trust, then try get their number after a day or two. The longer you stay on the app, the more they lose interest. If that works out and they give you it, then they might well be up for a date.

And above all else, this is just advice for apps, coming from someone who is shite at approaching women in person Obviously it's more ideal to do it in the real world, but this is a good start and can help you build confidence.

Good luck mate

im 5 foot 5 it doesnt matter im outgoing hard working and loyal at that height

apps or pubs

[Highfield]

I can think of at least three mates I've had over the years who were 5ft 9 at best, yet had no trouble attracting women.

Height helps, but it isn't the be all and end all.

they will be flash pretty boys

[Highfield]

It’s just not true. Needs a good scrub and some aftershave. And to leave the house.

out every weekend drinking

[Cooking with Sandra]

I don’t believe you.

[TheMalteseDart]

I'm 5'5 as well, it is true that it does screw you on apps a bit. Makes people have unlimited options so they consider things that in real life they wouldn't consider. Likes of love island etc hasn't helped where all girls say they want the old Tall, Dark and handsome.

Is what it is, nothing you can do about it. If you comment about it or make it a thing then it becomes a thing, just don't even acknowledge it

[Randall]

I put it down to wit and charm

I put it down to the green velvet suit and red waistcoat.

It got attention

[HalloweenJack]

I can think of at least three mates I've had over the years who were 5ft 9 at best, yet had no trouble attracting women.

Height helps, but it isn't the be all and end all.

I'm 5'9"

No further comments

I bumped into a friend I had

Senna lying there.

[Highfield]

I'm 5'5 as well, it is true that it does screw you on apps a bit. Makes people have unlimited options so they consider things that in real life they wouldn't consider. Likes of love island etc hasn't helped where all girls say they want the old Tall, Dark and handsome.

Is what it is, nothing you can do about it. If you comment about it or make it a thing then it becomes a thing, just don't even acknowledge it

you are the only one that gets it on here. we are bein screwed. liberal itv and bbc put out shows that tell women to only date 6 ft plus lads and flash pretty boys. they should promote loyalty and hard work.

i dont acknowledge it when women pass me over again for 6ft 5 inch paddy or pretty boy pete. yet we both know its the reason. then the women say they are bored of bad boys and want nice guys. i am right there willing to date them. then they just pass me ova for the next brute

[Cooking with Sandra]

Have a wash mate.

[Highfield]

Have a wash mate.

typical liberal. another forum member proves me right and you wrong. yet all u can do is insult. fact is us short lads like me and malta get screwed on apps and on love island. thats just us bein honest

[Cooking with Sandra]

[sennafan24]

I've never watched Love Island, but I would if thelad appeared on it.

[Cooking with Sandra]

“My name’s Robson, I’m 52, from Harrogate and oh yeah love the minions”

[oche balboa]

Some good advice from DFR.

[Randall]

Ite really not difficult to talk to women
Just need to view it as a social interaction not trying to pull
At lunch yesterday I got chatting with a 21 year old
We had a good laugh.
Had I not been ancient I'd have took my shot.